When You Don’t Know What You Value Anymore
Let’s get brutally honest for a second.
You’re not just struggling to make a decision.
You’re struggling to remember who you are in the face of it.
Because if we’re telling the truth (and we do that here), a lot of us reach a point where we look at a decision—big or small—and we think:
“I don’t even know what I want anymore.”
And that’s terrifying.
Not because you’re broken.
But because your values—the compass that usually points you home—feel like they’re missing from the map.
How We Lose Touch With Our Values
Most of us don’t consciously throw our values out the window.
It happens slowly, invisibly, over time.
We say yes when we want to say no.
We people-please. We adapt. We compromise.
We perform versions of ourselves that “fit” in all the right rooms.
And suddenly, without even realizing it, we’re navigating life on autopilot with someone else’s GPS.
Here’s what that leads to:
- Constant second-guessing
- Decisions that look good on paper but feel hollow
- Anxiety that feels general but is actually about misalignment
- A loop of “I should be happy” followed by “Why don’t I feel right?”
Sound familiar?
This isn’t about being confused.
It’s about being disconnected—from yourself.
Why Values Matter More Than Ever (Especially Right Now)
Let’s be clear: your values aren’t a motivational poster.
They’re the filter you run every meaningful decision through—consciously or not.
Without them, even small choices feel hard.
With them, big choices can feel grounded.
When you’re clear on your values:
- You stop apologizing for your “no”
- You stop forcing yourself into boxes that don’t fit
- You make decisions that feel right in your bones, not just logical on a spreadsheet
Values = direction.
And right now, if you’re stuck, it’s not because you lack direction—it’s because you’ve lost sight of your inner compass.
How to Find Your Way Back (Without Overthinking It)
You don’t need to meditate on a mountain or write a ten-page journal entry to find your values. (Though if you want to—go off.)
You just need a space to stop, breathe, and check in with what’s actually been true for you—especially when no one’s watching.
That’s where the Helly Yes or Hard Pass. No BS guide to making the right decision right now comes in.
(It is the core tool inside our Clarity Bundle.)
This guide helps you:
✅ Identify your top 5 values with confidence
✅ Get clear on where you’ve been living out of alignment
✅ Reframe your decisions based on what actually matters—not just what’s expected
Because here’s the reality:
You can’t make a good decision when you don’t know what you’re defending.
Your values are your boundaries. Your guideposts. Your truth-tellers.
When you reclaim them, you reclaim your ability to make aligned decisions—not just safe ones.
This Isn’t About Reinventing Yourself. It’s About Remembering.
You don’t need to change who you are.
You just need to remember who you were before the noise.
Before the pressure.
Before the comparisons.
Before the world told you what you “should” care about.
The Clarity Bundle isn’t a fix. It’s a return.
It helps you:
- Get honest about what season of life you’re actually in
- Make fast, grounded decisions that honour your full context
- Track your choices and build self-trust you can feel over time
What Happens When You Reconnect With Your Values?
- You move differently
- You say yes more freely—and no without guilt
- You stop chasing clarity outside yourself
- You feel lighter. Because the burden of indecision lifts
And maybe most importantly?
You start to feel like yourself again.
Want to Come Back to Yourself?
The Clarity Bundle includes:
- The Hell Yes or Hard Pass decision guide
- The 5 Ways to Get Unstuck quick action pack
- The Core Values Swipe Guide
- The Decision Tracker to build your clarity muscle over time
All of it for $42—because clarity shouldn’t be a luxury.
🧭 Reclaim your values. Reclaim your clarity.